I'm not dating this girl but we're are basically hanging out yeah that's a good term I suppose. Though there is some mutual interest and I guess you could call this a feeling out process since I just met her recently. Anyways that is just a little background and definitely not the important part of this post.
I've been thinking lately over the course of these past IDK 4-6 months I should pay attention to certain traits in a girl and not just ignore them before getting tooo serious with them. In the past I would just factor in their unique personalities/well looks yeah of course. Probably to some degree I had somewhat of a hero complex and liked ladies that needed saving on some level -- ummm I think I'm officially over that thank god lmao. Ewwww maybe I'm errrr growing up haha. So yea umm well I started to notice something in her behavior recently and little by little it just annoys me.
It's her odd obsession with celebrities and fawning over them in general. Okay with me we don't have to be having endless hrs. of intelligent conversation. I like to joke around and really cut loose. So whatever we talk about no matter how random it doesn't really bother me. Though there is something strange to me about a girl who will talk constantly about a celebrity guy like you have some type of ownership over him. You have several posters of him hanging from your wall (more than one?!) and your screen saver is a shirtless pic of him. When you start to act like your dying when he appears on a tv interview isn't that a bit much? It's like stop holding your heart like it's going to stop at any given moment and die already! lmao ya just kidding!
Checking their fansite daily and searching for their next appearance even when it's across the country and you know you won't be able to make the concert boggles my mind. I have to say gradually no matter how fun and cool you seem to be this type of obsession is a huuuuuuuuuuuuge turnoff. Well anyways I'm gonna ponder some more upon it but I don't think I'm gonna be able to look past this. It's just tooooooooo and sooooooooo annoying.
I guess everyone has their relationship pet peeves and I suppose I've found one of mine...
I've been thinking lately over the course of these past IDK 4-6 months I should pay attention to certain traits in a girl and not just ignore them before getting tooo serious with them. In the past I would just factor in their unique personalities/well looks yeah of course. Probably to some degree I had somewhat of a hero complex and liked ladies that needed saving on some level -- ummm I think I'm officially over that thank god lmao. Ewwww maybe I'm errrr growing up haha. So yea umm well I started to notice something in her behavior recently and little by little it just annoys me.
It's her odd obsession with celebrities and fawning over them in general. Okay with me we don't have to be having endless hrs. of intelligent conversation. I like to joke around and really cut loose. So whatever we talk about no matter how random it doesn't really bother me. Though there is something strange to me about a girl who will talk constantly about a celebrity guy like you have some type of ownership over him. You have several posters of him hanging from your wall (more than one?!) and your screen saver is a shirtless pic of him. When you start to act like your dying when he appears on a tv interview isn't that a bit much? It's like stop holding your heart like it's going to stop at any given moment and die already! lmao ya just kidding!
Checking their fansite daily and searching for their next appearance even when it's across the country and you know you won't be able to make the concert boggles my mind. I have to say gradually no matter how fun and cool you seem to be this type of obsession is a huuuuuuuuuuuuge turnoff. Well anyways I'm gonna ponder some more upon it but I don't think I'm gonna be able to look past this. It's just tooooooooo and sooooooooo annoying.
I guess everyone has their relationship pet peeves and I suppose I've found one of mine...