hello,
I recent topic came up at school once again and it rambled off into the topic: Do the 'nice' guys win? by winning i mean getting the girl and such. We debated on how in every girls life, there is atleast 1 'nice' guy. This 'nice' guy is the person who sticks with her through thick and thin. Helps her when she's down, comforts her even though its meant to be her boyfriends duty to do so. But the thing is, he is only a friend in her eyes.
So the question is: Can the 'nice' guy be something more than a friend?
To her, he is only a friend...and sadly thats all he ever will be. Even though he's been around for her for ages, she still doesn't have feelings towards this 'nice' guy. Rather, she chooses the 'bad ass' guys. The guys who end up breaking her heart and this keeps going while the 'nice' guy just stands by her side all the time.
Is there EVER going to be a realization that she's got someone who cares for her right under her nose?
It seems that the 'nice' guys are everywhere, its just that no one sees them for a particular reason. I've heard that 'nice' guys are 'emotional doormats' used by girls. I've also been told that in the end, 'nice' guys never win because they are too gutless to admit their feelings or that they are too busy helping others find 'happiness'.
can anyone help me answer this question? also...i dont mean to offend anyone. It works both ways for you ladies aswell.
I recent topic came up at school once again and it rambled off into the topic: Do the 'nice' guys win? by winning i mean getting the girl and such. We debated on how in every girls life, there is atleast 1 'nice' guy. This 'nice' guy is the person who sticks with her through thick and thin. Helps her when she's down, comforts her even though its meant to be her boyfriends duty to do so. But the thing is, he is only a friend in her eyes.
So the question is: Can the 'nice' guy be something more than a friend?
To her, he is only a friend...and sadly thats all he ever will be. Even though he's been around for her for ages, she still doesn't have feelings towards this 'nice' guy. Rather, she chooses the 'bad ass' guys. The guys who end up breaking her heart and this keeps going while the 'nice' guy just stands by her side all the time.
Is there EVER going to be a realization that she's got someone who cares for her right under her nose?
It seems that the 'nice' guys are everywhere, its just that no one sees them for a particular reason. I've heard that 'nice' guys are 'emotional doormats' used by girls. I've also been told that in the end, 'nice' guys never win because they are too gutless to admit their feelings or that they are too busy helping others find 'happiness'.
can anyone help me answer this question? also...i dont mean to offend anyone. It works both ways for you ladies aswell.