The size of your avatar is dependent on the amount of lines that your post contains. You can't really 'fix' it. But you could do less 2-3 lined posts and more 6-7 lined posts.
There are a number of levels:
Very short post (few words)= No avatar/sig
Short post (1/2 liners) = Small avatar (50x50)
Medium post ( 3/4 lines) = Normal avatar (100x100)
Long post (4 lines +) = Normal avatar + signature
NOTE: These levels may not apply to mods.
Sempais note: Since this is a duplicate thread I am now closing it. If you have further questions feel free to PM a mod or sempais.