Well,happiness and angst are both vital for human beings.Those who have both is those we called HUMAN.It's natural for people to be angry or to be happy.And of course,anger could hardly last forever,much the same with happiness.
First of all,we should understand what's happiness is.So then what is it?Is having no pressure from your parents to do well in your study can be called happiness?Is having pressure for having sex at certain age then should be called unhappiness?I guess many of us have already know,that happiness itself is a very subjective thing.It could easily differ from a person to the other.But really,those who could defined what happiness means for us is none other than ourselves.And since HUMAN is beings who easily forget,sometimes a things that bring happiness to him could easily become a thing that bring hatred and pain.So,we could easily changed our definition of happiness anytime,it's really up to us how we see things.
This poll hat the Unicef is having might as well not really reliable.
We know that there's no way they could ask for every childrens in a country for this,much less having the most honest answer.They're just doing some deduction and conclusion after having some figure from a few correspondent(this might range to thousands of people...but it's still a small figure comparing to the actual inhabitants of a country...
).But really,if someone were to ask whether you're happy or not would you be able to give one out confidently?.....and of course,do you think you will answer to how you currently feel or an overall answer after reviewing your life up to the time?Most people couldn't do so....usually our judgement were made based on the present,how we felt at the time.
Like I said,both happiness and anger were vital to a HUMAN life.And both didn't sustained as they were first looks like to us for all eternity.But of course out of the two,we seek out happiness,not the other way around,though the happiness we seek out may seems pointless to others,or even hurt the others.So,in the process of seeking our happiness,we might as well encounters anger itself,and be clouded in it.But once the moment of anger dispersed with the flow of time,we would again stand back and once again seek for our happiness.And anger is not the only one that will encounter during these 'journeys' of ours.Dissapointment,sadness,joy,hatred and much more.All pf this are our obstacles for our 'journeys' of seeking happiness,and can hardly be avoided.
But how we dealt with those emotion is one of the important parts of our 'journeys' as it would determine whether we could achieve the goal or not.Some could be drowned long in their emotions and lose sight of their goal,and some would quickly leave the 'obstacles' and keep going forward.But what would happened even when we have reached the 'goal'?We would set another one of course.And then we depart for our 'journey' yet again,and stumbled upon those various emotions again,and this cycle would keep repeating over and over again until we've reached our 'ultimate' goal in life,'death'....itself.And don't forget,we could meet things we defined as happiness too during our 'journeys' for seeking happiness,though maybe the happiness we stumbled upon may not one that we have seek out before,or something we've worked for.It maybe pure coincidential that we walk into it...or it maybe brought by others.This applies to other emotions too.
Ultimately for me,the main things we're should concerned about is how to deal properly with our emotions.Of course,happiness is the best
,but the other emotions couldn't be avoided(even if want to) as long as we're one that is called HUMAN.But of course,it's not an easy thing to do.I'm just the same with others.
But if we could just kept all of our memories and experiences,of how we felt when we're happy,how we felt when we're angry,sad or hurt,then maybe it would be easier to keep in track.But like I said,we HUMAN could easily forget,but we're not alone in this world right?Others could remind and help us if we've forget or lost,and we could do the same to others.Ah.....
....wait a sec....I think I've said something that I myself have failed to do....
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gomen minna....
I'm quite lost at words now....better stop here and updated this in the future.....
Sorry for babbling nonsense here
Hiroyuki-san!
Good Day then