Make my own

I was wondering if anyone could help me with something.

I go to other peoples servers all the time but i dont know how to make my own? can someone help me?

Before I anyone can answer this I have to ask these questions if that's alright.
-What kind of server are you going to make?
-Is the server going to be used with this site?
-If so then why not regester and talk to daft about that through a PM?
-If not then what are you going to have on it anyways?

I hope you can answer those for me.

Well, i'm not registered, but my friend uses one that we talk in, and i am almost done making a forums and i wanted to be able to have my users be able to talk through there.